Dear Aunt Patti -
While reflecting this week on the time we spent together over the years, one very strange memory burst to the top of my mind. Kristi and I came to visit you at the farm one year in the early 2000's -- well before London & Donovan were born. After catching up for a while, we set out to visit Grandpa (Bert) Elles in his Assisted Living home. You were determined to drive so Kristi and I strapped into your minivan. It was rare we ever rode in a vehicle together. You took to the back roads and let's just say YOU OWNED THEM. We weren't in a rush but I'm pretty sure we hit 85 MPH.... in a minivan... through the woods. I honestly didn't think that was possible in a minivan. Whatever was in the trunk rattled from left to right while we talked about the neighborhood and gripped the door handles with all our might. I can still see the look in Kristi's face as she slightly lifted from her set over the small hills and windy turns like an E-ticket ride at Cedar Point. We of course made it to Grandpa's safe and sound -- but our hearts were racing a bit more than normal.
So I thought to myself last night, "WHY this memory??" and it finally came to me as I broke it all down. That one moment explained who you were to me. No, not that you were an Indy 500 racer, but that you were Strong, Confident, Determined and a Leader. Family was your Priority #1 and while no one's road of life is ever perfect or straight, you always found a way to get through -- at your pace -- with Love as the driver and you leading the way. You made our hearts race because you knew how to enjoy life and regardless of your recent heart conditions, YOU had the biggest heart of all.
You were a positive impression to my family in many ways and I personally thank you for everything you taught me growing up. We love you and we miss you. May you soundly Rest In Peace as you now take on the other side's new roads. And while that Indy 500 car may suit you quite nicely, stick to something with little more space for Grandma and Grandpa. I'm sure they can't wait to be together with you again. Please give them a big hug and kiss for me.
All Our Love,
Chris (CJ), Kristi, London and Donovan Elles
Matawan, NJ
