This has been a difficult loss. I have many many memories with Pat. Although we've been divorced for many years, he's always been family. He always gave me the BEST hugs and told me he loved me. I can still picture him standing here in my kitchen telling us his crazy stories! It's true, he couldn't go anywhere without someone saying " hey white boy" , one of his nicknames. So many memories. I still remember our hospital stays when our children were born. He slept right in the hospital bed with me. I know pat is in heaven. I know this because, we were once one soul together. We will always miss Pat's stories, hugs and laughter. Plus nobody could beat Pat and I in spades! We shall see you again. 💔